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| Sniper hiding like snipers do - Sept 2015 |
On the page for the video there was a Facebook link to click on. Low and behold it was a page called Dogs with Autism Characteristics ( https://www.facebook.com/groups/517051411687595/ ). I was so excited to have a group of people to ask questions to and learn from their journeys in the hopes of making Sniper's journey better. The first person I talked to was Michelle and bless her heart she took two hours out of her day to chat with me over the messaging service and answer my questions. The information I gleaned that day gave me so much relief and answered so many questions that were bouncing around in my head. I thanked Michelle the best I could but she will never truly know how much she helped me that day.
What exactly did she tell me that was so profound?
1. Rosemary in food or treats is a neuro-stimulant and increases many autistic behaviours.
Luckily the food I was feeding did not contain any Rosemary but a quick look at the treats I was feeding and there it was. No more treats with Rosemary.
2. For working dogs they need a week of dark time both before and after events.
While I understand the principle behind this and can appreciate the need for it, in the day to day of our lives this just isn't possible for Sniper but we do the best we can.
3. When Sniper has a panic attack I need to ensure he is safe but not insist on the same level of rational behaviour I expect from my other dogs. If I attempt to chase him a flight response may occur and if I try to grab him in an attempt to contain him it will likely make things worse. If he chooses to hide just let him be.
Wow! Where was this advice back in the beginning of September? The whole scary scene is 100% clearer now. It also explains the panic attack at 6 months old when he ran away, pure flight response.
4. If Sniper chooses to remove himself to a dark room in the house he is doing this because he needs to, respect his boundaries.
Every evening when we get home from work, Sniper eats his dinner and goes to his crate in the bedroom away from the family. I felt bad for him and thought he didn't like us or didn't feel safe in the house. Now I understand what he was doing and I think how smart he was for figuring that out.
5. The feeling of wind in their hair is euphoria and provides a calming feeling to them.
The sight of Sniper running as fast as he can and as long as he can when playing fetch makes perfect sense. The windier the day the better for him. It also explains why he loves dock diving so much.
6. Routine is key, try not to change anything that provides structure and stability for him.
Another light bulb moment. I couldn't change vehicles we traveled in, crates he used or the bedding without Sniper looking like the throws of a panic attack starting. I am also a compulsive furniture re-arranger, not anymore. The look on Sniper's face when I re-arrange the furniture is priceless but one of definite confusion and it upsets the whole balance in his life.
From these six statements alone, the light bulb went off and I suddenly had a true look into my dog. I finally was starting to understand him.














